Millie Bobby Brown’s Farm Life: Beyond the Instagrammable Aesthetic
Millie Bobby Brown, the English actress best known for her role in the Netflix series "Stranger Things," has chosen a life far removed from the glitz and glamor of Hollywood. Brown and her husband, Jacob "Jake" Bongiovi, son of rock legend Jon Bon Jovi, have settled into a sprawling farm in Georgia, a decision that has sparked curiosity and raised questions about their motivations.
In a recent interview with Vanity Fair, Brown dispelled the notion that she has embraced the "trad wife" influencer lifestyle, a subculture of women who promote traditional gender roles and homesteading on social media. "I’m not doing it [farm life] for the aesthetic," Brown emphasized. "I’m doing it because I love it."
Brown’s farm is anything but a serene sanctuary. "You think animals are peaceful. You think the South is peaceful. You think this place is peaceful. But there’s so much chaos," she said. "My animals are loud, and it’s messy and my dogs are crazy. And there is, you know, laughter and a lot of passion and excitement, and it is a very vibrant place."
Amidst the chaos, Brown finds solace. "There is so much chaos, and that is where I thrive," she explained. Her farm has become a haven for dogs rescued from kill shelters through her foundation, Joey’s Friends. These canines reside in a barn on the property, receiving personalized care from Brown herself.
Brown’s passion for animal welfare extends beyond her farm. She is currently taking online classes in human services and veterinary studies at Purdue University. "I’m able to treat wounds, take their pulse, moderate blood pressure, things like that. I do all their medical records myself," she said.
A Love Story and Early Marriage
Brown’s personal life has also been a source of intrigue. In April 2023, she announced her engagement to Bongiovi, and the couple tied the knot in May 2024. Their early marriage, with Brown being 20 and Bongiovi 22 at the time, drew criticism.
However, Brown defended their decision. "We were pretty united going into it. We talked about our political views, what kind of family we want to build, the kind of home we want to live in, the kind of relationship we’re looking for, the kind of careers we want," she explained. "It’s such an important decision, and we wanted to make sure we were making the right one. I knew I was. It always felt right with him."
Beyond Love and Marriage
Brown’s relationship with Bongiovi has taught her the distinction between loving someone and being in love. "I think I loved a lot of people I was with, like I loved my friends. But he is the first man I’ve ever loved and been in love with," she said. "If we’re not fully invested, then what’s the point? We have to be, and we always have been."
Brown and Bongiovi’s relationship is built on mutual respect and support. Bongiovi recognizes Brown’s independence and drive, describing her as "very unique." "She is ahead of her time," he said. "She’s very intelligent. She’s very creative. She’s very driven. She’s very independent."
Conclusion
Millie Bobby Brown’s farm life is a reflection of her values and passions. It is a sanctuary where chaos and tranquility coexist, a place where she can pursue her interests in animal welfare and education. Her early marriage to Jake Bongiovi is a testament to their unwavering love and commitment.
Brown’s story is a reminder that life choices are personal and should not be dictated by societal norms or media perceptions. Her farm life may seem unconventional, but it aligns with her genuine desires and brings her true fulfillment.
