Jax Taylor Opens Up About Cocaine Addiction, Ex-Wife Brittany Cartwright Responds with Concern
Jax Taylor, known for his tumultuous presence on "Vanderpump Rules," has publicly acknowledged his long-standing struggle with substance abuse, marking a significant step towards sobriety. The revelation came during an episode of Bravo’s "Hot Mic" podcast, where Taylor detailed his battle with cocaine addiction, a problem he says has plagued him for nearly two decades.
The 45-year-old reality star shared that he is approaching three months of sobriety, a period that includes abstaining from alcohol. Taylor admitted that alcohol and cocaine use were intertwined for him. "I can’t do cocaine without drinking," he confessed, leading him to make the difficult but necessary decision to give up both substances entirely.
Taylor explained that he had been contemplating this public admission for some time. The timing felt right with the impending premiere of "The Valley," a "Vanderpump Rules" spin-off in which he stars alongside his estranged wife, Brittany Cartwright. He wanted to be upfront and honest with viewers, stating, "I wanted everyone to know, this is what happened." Interestingly, he also revealed that the production team of "The Valley" was unaware of his struggles.
Reflecting on his past behavior, Taylor acknowledged that his substance abuse was likely apparent to viewers of "Vanderpump Rules." "I think a lot of people who watch ‘Vanderpump Rules’ over the years, could kind of tell that I was on something," he stated.
This period of sobriety marks a personal milestone for Taylor. "This is the longest I’ve gone since I was 21 without anything," he said, emphasizing the profound challenge he faces. "This is a really, really tough disease. I’ve been doing it for so long, and you can say hiding it, lying about it, forever. And I just had it, enough’s enough."
The candid confession has elicited a strong reaction from Brittany Cartwright, Taylor’s ex-wife. Cartwright, 36, shared her thoughts with People magazine, expressing a mixture of relief and concern. "I’m glad that he finally admitted to what was really going on," she said.
However, Cartwright’s statement also revealed the depth of the pain and trauma caused by Taylor’s addiction. "For the first time, I can speak openly about the extent of trauma he’s instilled on our family over the years," she confessed. She described her previous attempts to help Taylor overcome his addiction, stating, "I’ve tried desperately to help him without success."
While acknowledging Taylor’s efforts toward sobriety, Cartwright expressed skepticism about his long-term success. "I pray that one day he completely knocks this addiction, but I’m skeptical," she admitted. Her concerns stem from what she perceives as ongoing problematic behaviors and an inadequate treatment plan. "His behaviors are still alarming and his treatment plan seems to be the bare minimum," she noted.
Cartwright filed for divorce from Taylor in August, after five years of marriage. The couple share a three-year-old son, Cruz, and the divorce proceedings involve a custody battle. Cartwright has petitioned for legal and physical custody of Cruz, while requesting visitation rights for Taylor.
The divorce has been particularly challenging for Cartwright, who is prioritizing the well-being of their son. "I’m trying to navigate this as best as I can for my son and I, but every day is still a challenge and very difficult," she explained. "Jax has caused an enormous amount of damage and I have very little trust in him at this point. My only hope is that one day, he will be a better person for his son."
Cartwright publicly announced their separation in February 2024 on their podcast, "When Reality Hits," a month after the separation date indicated in her legal filing. "Jax and I are taking time apart and I made the decision to move into another home to take some space for the sake of my mental health," she said in the podcast episode. Acknowledging the emotional toll of the situation, Cartwright added, "Yes, marriages in general are very hard and I’ve had a particularly rough year this past year. Noting the situation was still very hard to talk about, Cartwright said, I’m taking one day at a time."
The news of their separation coincided with the upcoming premiere of "The Valley," further complicating an already difficult situation. The spin-off series features other familiar faces from the "Vanderpump Rules" universe, including Kristen Doute, Luke Broderick, Danny and Nia Booko, Janet and Jason Caperna, and Jesse and Michelle Lally. The show is expected to offer an inside look at the couples’ lives as they navigate parenthood, relationships, and personal challenges.
Taylor’s decision to publicly address his addiction is a significant step, both for himself and for those who may be struggling with similar issues. His vulnerability in sharing his story may encourage others to seek help and break the stigma surrounding addiction.
The situation also highlights the devastating impact that addiction can have on families. Cartwright’s candid account underscores the pain, trauma, and uncertainty experienced by those who are close to individuals battling substance abuse. Her focus on protecting her son and prioritizing her own mental health is a testament to her strength and resilience.
As Jax Taylor embarks on his journey to sobriety, the future remains uncertain. While Brittany Cartwright expresses skepticism, she also holds onto the hope that he will ultimately overcome his addiction and become a better father to their son. Only time will tell if Taylor’s commitment to sobriety will endure and if he can rebuild trust with those he has hurt.
If you or someone you know is struggling with mental and/or substance use disorders, you can call the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration’s free and confidential treatment referral and information service at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). It’s available 24/7 in English and Spanish (TTY: 1-800-487-4889).
